"Now, while these two paths do lead to liberation, the obstacles along the way are also extremely grave. So, what should one who desires liberation do? Please answer this question."

All of the paramhansas then began to think, but no one was able to supply a suitable answer.

Shriji Mahãrãj then said, "The answer to the question is as follows: One's mind does not become infatuated on seeing one's own mother, sister or daughter, even if they are very beautiful. Moreover, even though one may talk with them, or even touch them, the mind is not even slightly infatuated. In the same manner, if one were to consider all female devotees of God as one's own mother, sister or daughter, then infatuation would not arise in any way at all. Then, by worshipping God via the amorous path, one would attain liberation."
 

[Gadhadã II-3]